I had previously posted on this very subject in the past regarding the Puerto Rican or rather the Hispanic view of the family. We Hispanics tend to be a very tight knit bunch. Our family, our blood means everything to us. I cannot describe how wonderful it feels to be the recipient of so much devotion.
Puerto Ricans consider themselves American but are fiercely proud of their island and their culture. They don’t usually call themselves Americans or “Americanos”, but “Puertorriqueños” or “Boricuas”. To most Puerto Ricans, “my country” means “Puerto Rico”, not the United States.
Criollo (creole) is a word used today by Puerto Ricans to describe things native to the island, such as: music, cuisine, language, arts, people, religion, and other aspects of the island culture.
It is known that Puerto Rican descendants call themselves Puerto Ricans. “I am Puerto Rican, but I wasn’t born there.”
The term “Nuyorican” is used to identify New Yorkers born in Puerto Rico or of Puerto Rican descent who live in or near New York City. The word Nuyorican derives from a combination of the words “New York” and “Puerto Rican”.
My mother was the best example of a mother’s love. She loves us unconditionally and always has. Sure, she had that infamous Latina temper but we never once doubted how much this mother loved us.
I sometimes feel I pale in comparison to how I love my daughter but then I think about the sacrifices made in order to ensure my daughter was brought up well, never had to worry about a roof over her head or food in her belly. She saw how dedicated I was to being educated and I instilled these values along with hard work into her.
For those of you men who find Latin women erotic and ache to date/marry one of us I beg you to try and understand the concept of La Familia and to keep this in mind if you wish to be involved:
Puerto Rican American
|Family is the foundation of the Puerto Rican social structure. The word ”familismo” is a Puerto Rican word that means close family connections, and it emphasizes the concern for the well being of the family.
||Friends and peer-aged acquaintances are often seen as the foundation of U.S. social structure.
|Communications by telephone, as well as visits among families, are signs of being caring and are strongly encouraged and valued.
||Communication by telephone is common, but family visits are often reserved for holidays and special occasions.
|“Interactions between family members and others are expected to be courteous, honorable and considerate” (Giammanco & Bartolomei, date, page ?).
||Interactions among family members reflect the independence that is expected and highly valued among individuals in this culture.
|Family honor is of primary importance to Puerto Ricans, and they value an extended family, or modified extended family, which is the basic support system for first- and second-generation families in the U.S. (e.g.: cousins, aunts, uncles, grandparents, godparents (padrino/madrina), and close friends.
||The family unit is very diverse but, generally, it tends to be small and nuclear.
|Individual achievement is not considered as valuable as family loyalty.
||Individual achievement is highly valued.
|It is quite common to find three generations living under the same roof.Married couples tend to live in a house or apartment near their parents.
||Family members such as the grandparents, parents, married children and other relatives may live in different parts of the country.
|Children are brought up as an integral part of the family unit. “Each [family] member has interdependent responsibilities, which validate their position in the family” (Giammanco & Bartolomei, date, p.?).
||Children are not expected to contribute to the welfare of the whole family.
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Puerto Ricans are known for their warm hospitality, often considered very friendly and expressive to strangers. Greetings are often cordial and genuine. When people are first introduced, a handshake is usual, however, close friends and family members always greet you hello or goodbye with a kiss on the cheek or a combination hug and kiss. This happens between female friends and between men and women, but not between male friends.
Puerto Ricans are best known by speaking using lively hand and facial gestures, as hand and body language are important forms of communication.