For the life of me I ‘ll never figure men out.
If anyone knows or has heard of the book: Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus, will totally get where I am coming from.
Like it or not ladies, men and women have very distinctive communication styles. When I was in college I took a marriage and family class. It was brought to my naive attention that men tend to think in a linear pattern whiles as women approach subjects and their thought processes in a circular pattern. (Probably why men become frustrated with our approach) and men tend to want to get to the point. And when you mix emotions into the equation…forget it. Typically men will tune you out.
“When a man can listen to a woman’s feelings without getting angry and frustrated, he gives her a wonderful gift.
He makes it safe for her to express herself.
The more she is able to express herself, the more she feels heard and understood, and the more she is able to give a man the loving trust, acceptance, appreciation, admiration, approval, and encouragement that he needs.”
― John Gray, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus