Falling in love is easy….

To fall in love is easy, even to remain in it is not difficult; our human loneliness is cause enough. But it is a hard quest worth making to find a comrade through whose steady presence one becomes steadily the person one desires to be. Anna Louise Strong

It’s true though…we can fall in love a thousand times over but finding someone who will be faithful and true, to stick with you during the difficult times, your stable force….THAT can prove to be more difficult than not.

People can remain in a toxic relationship because the fear of being alone is far more detrimental to their well-being than simply moving on.

I have seen marriages like this, and countless friendships and romantic relationships stumble because the fear of solititude far outweighs reason.

Human beings are programmed socialized beings.  For the most part our quality of life is determined by those individuals who we surround ourselves with. They all have such an immense impact on not only our emotions but our very thought processes.

And love, love is the ultimate aphrodisiac, drug, it’s free and when you feel that ethereal sensation of romanticism….people will move mountains to attain it.

Yes, falling in love is easy but finding someone who is your stabilizing force through this thing called Life…well, that my friends can be the ultimate challenge…….


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